[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re putting your energy into a man who isn’t interested in having you as a girlfriend. 😳 If a guy doesn’t ask you out after about three weeks of talking online and on the phone, move on. You confused yourself by being the one to ask HIM out. If you’d just let him do the chasing, you would have seen he wasn’t going to. Talking 3 to 5 hours a day, 4 to 5 days a week is WAY too much.

My advice is to cut bait and move on. He may be someone you’ve known all your life, but he isn’t acting like he wants to be your boyfriend. Find a man who is! 😀