[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re right. It’s time to re-think your long time best friendship. Both your ex-boyfriend and your best friend are looking out for their own best interests and ignoring yours. While you can’t control them, you can decide to be happier and healthier by letting go and finding a new best friend! You need a best friend in your life who is mature enough to understand that she can’t be your ex-boyfriend’s friend and like him, too — without hurting you deeply. She doesn’t get it. Find someone who does.

I hope that helps!

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