Your observation and analysis of the situation are exactly right. This [i]is[/i] about him. If you continue to be with him, expect more of the same. It’s really sounding like this issue is going to end up being a deal breaker down the line. For example, if you have children together and he goes out to be with these ex-girlfriends while you’re stuck home with the kids, you’re going to feel very uncomfortable (as opposed to him going out with his buddies while you babysit). Dating is a process where you get to know someone and decide if they’re Mr. Right or not. You’ve hit a roadblock, I’m afraid. You’ve been very thoughtful, open and understanding, but most women would not be okay about his behavior. It’s time to move on. 😳
April Masini, your AskApril