AnonymousI did read part of your book (didn’t finish it yet), but a lot has happened since I sent you a message last. My friend and I have started getting closer quite quickly. Our relationship has become very intimate (although online) and we were at a point where we were talking online everyday. I told him I was falling for him and he told me a couple weeks ago that he loved me too. The problem is that he has decided to break off our relationship (last week), saying that it’s too much. He says he broke up with his girlfriend but that he doesn’t think she knows about it yet, as they hadn’t spoke. I don’t know what he’s waiting for. When I spoke to him last, I basically told him I was going to come visit him but he said not too because it was a bad idea (saying that he didn’t trust himself with me, cause I turn him on so much). However, he said he still wants to be friends. The next day after my last talk with him, he deactivated his facebook account and I never heard back from him since. I have called him last weekend and he never called me back. And now, I’m so upset about his behaviour that I sent him an email saying that he broke my trust in him as I thought he was a true friend. I still haven’t heard back from him after this email. I don’t know what to think. Did he mean it when he said he loves me (he did tell me a few times he meant it)? I don’t know why he needs to avoid me like this… I’m starting to think he isn’t the person I thought he was and that he was playing me all this time. I heard from a friend that he is a sweet-talker, but I never thought he would do this to me. Is this possible? I know a relationship with this guy is not a good idea, but I don’t want our friendship to end because of us crossing the line… What should I do? How long should I wait before contacting him again?
