[April Masini, your AskApril]

Okay, thanks for all the details. I can now see that your break up wasn’t because of feelings — it was because of distance and her health. But now that you’re both on the same campus distance is no longer a problem, and it sure sounds like wants to start up with you again. She’s dating another guy, but if you want to compete for her, you should do it. Read Date Out Of Your League [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] and follow the instructions for getting the girl. Be your own man and don’t be complicit in a secret relationship. If you want her, go for it.

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