Well she changed that today aboout not getting into her head. She has been diagnosed with bipolar and is taking meds for it. I don’t know if that has something to do with it or not. I understand where you are coming from about her not seeing me as a part of a long term relationship yet she says she wants to marry me and move back to my hometown with me, Chicago, IL. She envisions a beautiful marriage between her and I so I don’t think it’s not that she doesn’t picture a long term relationship with me. When she told me to stay out of her head she was angry with me for always bringing up the fantasies and getting upset with her about them. I do know that there are certain things a person will do when they do not want to deal with life such as get into a kind of role playing, acting out a fantasy or some other imagination. Personally I think she may be doing this to escape her own life. She was sexually abused by her cousin in the past so that may have alot to do with it as well. I was sexually abused by my father as a child so I know and understand what she’s gong through but after years of pain and struggle I have learned to cope with it and the past go something my girlfriend has a very hard time doing. I am trying to help her out with that since I know the only way she can move on in life is to let the past go…the past is the past.
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