Before you decide that you’re incompatible because you want different types of lifestyles (she wants to be out with her friends and social activities more than she wants to spend one on one time with you, and you want more one on one time than social activities with others), consider making her better offers than just “hanging out”. Lots of times people feel devalued in relationships and she may be reacting to your offers to hang out. If you offer something more special and specific — like tickets to an event or dinner or brunch at a lovely restaurant she wants to try — you may get a better result.
See if a better offer makes her more interested in spending time with you — and let me know how it goes.
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