[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re behaving with me the same way you are with her. You didn’t like my advice, so now you’re coming back to me and telling me that other people think otherwise. 😕 This is the same behavior you’re displaying with your girlfriend: you don’t like her behavior, but you continue to date her (and to complain about her!). 😳

Look in the mirror and ask yourself why you continue to date a woman who’s behavior you don’t like, don’t approve of and don’t respect. What is it about yourself that needs to be in a relationship where you feel like the other person is wrong and you’re right?

My advice stands — this isn’t the woman for you. Stop criticizing her, and move on and find someone who is compatible with you and with whom you won’t have these types of issues.