[Anonymous]

I spoke with her more about it and along with her best friend and we all three came to the conclusion that things like showing her breasts to other men (including her brother-in-law) was not cool. Yet…

Last night, while out having drinks with her and friends, she mentioned that while dropping her son off at her ex-husband’s house, he made the comment “Why don’t you show me your new boobs. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen them anyway.” Yes she showed them to her ex-husband. Everyone at the table looked really uncomfortable (my girlfriend was slightly intoxicated at the time, which probably contributed to the errant slip of the tongue.)

This came a day after we were watching a show called “Intervention” and in the episode an alcoholic mother would sleep in the same bed with her alcoholic 20-something son. In the program, one of the intervention specialists mentioned “You don’t find that odd sleeping in the same bed as your son?” He then went on to label it as something like “unacted upon incest” (that’s not the correct term but something close to that).

My girlfriend commented on her own, out loud that it was weird.

What I can’t understand is how it’s not weird to her to not keep her boobs in her shirt or show her ex-husband?

Thoughts?