[April Mașini, your AskApril]

You have every right to expect that after two years, he’d not only move in with you, but marry you! He’s 46, divorced, and his daughter is no longer a minor child — and she’s engaged to be married — all good reasons for him to marry you. But since he’s not, I think you have to face the fact that he’s not the marrying type any more. In fact, he’s stuck in a rut.

My advice to you is to cut your losses. He may realize once you’re gone, that he doesn’t want to lose you and step up to the plate. Don’t give him an ultimatum, though. Just end it civilly and lovingly, knowing your needs are not going to be met as long as you continue with this man in this pattern.

I hope that helps.

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