[April Masini, your AskApril]

You should not tell your ex-boyfriend that you kissed another guy because, frankly, if you’re not together any more, it’s none of his business. 😯 Telling him would just incite negative feelings, and because you wrote that you have a history that is “violent and devastating” with him, it’s time to start moving away from him. This break up is a good step. 😀

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