You need to learn to articulate your thoughts if you want to be successful in relationships. If you don’t, you’re doomed to a series of miscommunications that can torpedo relationships. 🙁 This process takes discipline and practice and you’ll make mistakes along the way but if you don’t try it, you’ll never succeed.
In addition to which if you continue to live in the past and refuse to let go of the small stuff, you’re going to doom your relationships, too — and I know you don’t want that.
This guy likes you and he’s interested in you. Accept that (at least) half of the miscommunication was your responsibility and fault and move on.
My advice is to not make a big deal of things and instead, [i]appreciate[/i] his interest in your feelings. Use this opportunity to not just grow closer, but to have some fun. If your entire relationship is based on problems it’s not going to be healthy. You can tell him you were missing him, but you’re really appreciative of his taking the time to find out what’s going on with you.
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