[April Masini, your AskApril]

The age difference of ten years isn’t necessarily the problem. The problem is that you’re feeling insecure in the relationship. If the spark has gone out, you can’t magically expect it to reappear. You have to work at it.

Figure out where you’ve let your half of the bargain begin to slump. Do you still treat him like a cherished boyfriend — or have you stopped flirting with him? Have you let yourself go? Has date night gone the way of the rotary telephone in your house? His wanting to go to bed (to sleep) may be because he doesn’t think anything interesting is going to happen in bed besides sleep. 😕 It just may be time for you begin working on yourself and alluring him back to the sparkling relationship you once had!

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