I know it’s difficult to get over someone you loved enough to become engaged to, but you’re going to have to do it if you want some peace and happiness. The way to do it is to put your energy and focus elsewhere. You’re in a rut right now. If you can get out of the rut you won’t have the time on your hands to text your ex-fiance or think about him. This requires work on your part, but it’s worthwhile.
You’re going to have to change your behavior. Take a class in a different part of town. Go on a tour or join a volunteer group — again, in a different part of town or with very different people. Switch churches, switch your group of friends, switch the places your shop and have coffee. Get a pet! A really cute dog that requires you to walk him (in a different neighborhood where there are lots of single men) can be a great conversation piece and man magnet! Volunteer at a hospital, for a political group or some other agency where you can stay busy, meet other singles, and focus on a cause greater than yourself and your ex!
These are just a few ideas — you’re going to have to really work to change your ways and stay busy.
