Your mistake was allowing a friends with benefits relationship. 🙁 This NEVER works out in the long run, and the short run can be a VERY short run. 😳 Men have sex because they can. And you provided that arena for him. Now, he’s not interested in having sex with you any more, but you, like most women, have developed feelings for the man you’re sleeping with — and you don’t have a solid relationship, so he’s moving on, and you’re getting dumped. 😥 Cut your losses and move on — don’t go after him. It’s too late.
My advice is that you read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], that you can buy at this link or on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon. The book will help you understand the differences between men and women, and how to get what you want so you don’t wind up dumped! 😕 Get the book and read it, so you can move on and date smart next time around.
I’m sorry your feelings are hurt, but I hope you can learn from this mistake and do better next time. (I know you can!)
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April Masini, your AskApril