Okay, I’m afraid you’re not going to like my advice, but you asked so I’m going to tell you the truth.
I think his behavior is telling you all you need to know…. Be that in his pursuit of you (or lack thereof), his affection towards you (or lack thereof), or his desire to do things with and for you (or lack thereof).
You have been pursuing this man, he has not been pursuing you. Now you are taking steps to continue seeing him, he is not going out of his way to see you.
What should you do? Simple. STOP!
Stop calling him and stop texting him — stop everything. If he is interested in a relationship with you he will come after you and he will ask you on a date. If he doesn’t, he was never interested in the first place.
I realize this may sound harsh, but I find so many women want to make excuses for why a man doesn’t email, doesn’t call, doesn’t pursue them, etc. when the answer is very simple. He’s doesn’t do it because he’s not interested enough to do so. If he was — Trust Me — he would.
I’m sorry this isn’t what you wanted to hear, but I honestly believe it’s what you needed to hear.
I would strongly recommend that you read my book, Think & Date Like A Man…
I wish you all the best.
