am katdawg didnt you see the part where i said i wasnt going to meet my friends to celebrate his birthday i was just leaving the wedding to go home!!!!
i am 27 six years together is a long time but before i get married i wanted us to live together for a little while. i am in the process of building my house right now and should be completed at the end of the year.
i asked her to stay with me a couple of months to just experience life as a true married couple.
the reason being for this is that i have seen too many couples get married and then divorced after 6 months or a year reason being the transition between couple life and married life is a big step when at the end of the day you both goto your respective houses (parents house).
i dont know if she feels that i am not committed enough or wants more at then end of 6 years but that is what i am working towards.
right now she wants me to go couple counselling or have nothing to do with her.
i dont think i will be going and she is to stubborn to call.
thanks for your insight i was starting to second guess myself about my decision.
