I understand where you are comming from sometimes you have to follow your heart and your first mind, because when someone is cheationg on you they will make up any and every lie possible for you not to find out. That apparently was a recent message, if it was dated recent, I know that when you are married you have to trust one another, but when you are finding things in that matter and having such suspicion, it’s probably because you are NOT crazy and your partner is not being faithful. I think that maybe you should confront him and give him and ultimatim make him believe that you KNOW what is going on and you’re no longer putting up with it. Be strong YOU DONT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT. YOU ARE A STAR