Call him, text him, leave a message for crying out loud!! If he doesn’t respond to that (like an invitation to go do something, etc.), then you can begin the freak-out session. For all he knows, you have found it so awkward since that little episode that you were calling to break-up with him, but just didn’t want to leave it on his voice mail. Or, since you said that you both know you don’t love him, he may be questioning how much you are interested in the first place (even though it would be understandable that you don’t love him at this point). He may be suffering from a bit of a bruised ego here. Make it clear that you are receptive to spending more time with him, etc. and continuing what you’ve got going. If he’s still not responding, move on, and don’t blame yourself for what you did/did not say — there may be a lot of other reasons to why he’s suddenly gone cold (if he really has).
