No, you can’t back your past! 😆 In fact, the reality is the past has made you the person you are today and that is the woman he loves. I think the problem, however, isn’t your past. It’s his! He is uncomfortable with his having only had one lover in the past while you’ve had a lot more experience. If he had more experience, he would understand that people bring pasts to the table and with some luck, they’ve worked through their mistakes and have evolved to the point they’re at now. You have. He hasn’t.
If he keeps bringing up your past, gently ask him about his feelings. Softly put the focus on him, so he can work through the reasons that he is so upset about your past. Don’t make this be about you and don’t let him make this be about you. If you help him to see that this is not about you, he’ll have an opportunity to confront what’s really at hand for him.
I hope that helps. Let me know if I can help you with anything else.
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