[April Masini, your AskApril]

Dating is a numbers game and you’re not playing the numbers. Only talking to one girl at a time is where you’re going wrong. It’s great to be monogamous, but save the monogamy for an actual relationship. You’re wasting time by being monogamous before you’re in one.

One of the examples of where you went wrong was having 50 dinners with a girl and only asking her out twice. That’s WAY too much investment in one person with no yield. Think about sports. The best baseball players — the ones who get the grand slams — they go up to bat and strike out a lot before they connect to hit the ball out of the park.

Treat dating like you would a business. Keep mining your prospects until you strike gold.

I think that if you make this adjustment you’re going to find more success. Let me know if that helps and how things go.

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