The great thing about dating and time is that if you allow yourself to, you can really get to know someone. If you take a few steps back, you’ll see that you’ve known her for over a year now, and her patterns are very clear. She keeps going back to this guy, and yes, she’s confused.
The question is, why do you want to be with someone who keeps leaving you for another guy? 😕 I know you want to blame him, but SHE is the one who keeps walking away from you. He doesn’t have a gun to her head. She’s doing this all on her own.
I think you have to accept she’s someone who is not ready to be in a relationship with you — or at least one that is going to last. My advice is to move on — and expect that she’ll come back, but if you start dating her again, it will only be a matter of time before the ex-boyfriend wins her over. Again. So, this isn’t a good relationship for you.
Remember — it’s not her ex-boyfriend who is the problem. It’s the fact that she isn’t ready to commit to you after knowing you for a year now. You deserve more and better from someone who’s ready to be with you.
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