[April Masini, your AskApril]

When your man stops doing what he used to do, the first thing I’d ask you is what have YOU stopped doing? ❓ Long term relationships take work, and maintaining them doesn’t just happen magically. It sounds like you’re doing cooking, cleaning and having sex with him, but are you still being alluring? (I know you’re pregnant, but do you still put on make up and perfume? Do you keep up your grooming habits?) Men want to feel special and when you make him feel special, he’s going to start treating you specially.

Also, remember that you’re BOTH going through a transition and he may be worried and even frightened about becoming a father. There are things men go through as they become first time fathers that it’s hard for women to understand, so rather than blaming him, open up the communication and ask him how he’s feeling about being a father, and what his hopes and dreams are for your son.

I hope that helps! Let me know how things go — and good luck on the birth of your child! 😀

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