[April Masini, your AskApril]

There is no such thing as a “true definition of trust” as you put it. Therefore, it’s wrong for you to hold her behavior up to some such thing that doesn’t exist. 😮

If you have “the best at heart” for your girlfriend and want to be non-judgmental, as you describe below, then let her have her privacy. If you don’t understand that she needs privacy even within a relationship, then you’re probably going to smother her down the line. 😕