Yes, you’re making a mountain out of a molehill! 😉 If you trust her, you shouldn’t need her e-mail login information. While giving her your information may not bother you at all, she has a different level of need for privacy, and having privacy doesn’t mean someone is cheating on you or even doing anything wrong. It’s just nice to have some sense of a separate life when you’re in a relationship. It’s too much of a burden for anyone to put every need they have on their partner. She has friends and family that she discusses things with — and some of those things may have to do with you — but that’s healthy! Her outside relationships with people can help her form her own opinions and color her behavior, and if you like who she is, then don’t rock the boat! 🙂 Trusting someone is different than needing to know everything about them. Give her a little space in this regard — especially since you don’t seem to have a relationship problem!
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