[April Masini, your AskApril]

The question looms: what will happen if you’re married and he does this? How about if you have children together and he does this? If he’s not mature enough to handle blow ups in a cooperative way, you’re looking at some chaos down the line. Talk to him about these issues and if he doesn’t care, then he may be too self-centered to consider marrying and having children with. When you have kids, and there are fights between the parents (and having fights is normal), the way they get resolved and the way you express yourselves, is more important than ever. You’re wise to deal with this issue now.

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