[April Masini, your AskApril]

You break up with him, walk away, and don’t look back — that’s what you do!

Then, you buy the book I wrote for women who want to find, date and KEEP Mr. Right and READ IT!! It’s called Think & Date Like A Man, and you can get it here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

Clearly, you need a neon sign, since your boyfriend has given you every indication that he’s still involved with his ex-girlfriend and doesn’t treat you like he wants you to be an important part of his life. You admit to jumping the gun in this relationship — now it’s time to accept responsibility for not getting to know him better and for ignoring the yellow and flashing red lights.

I hope that helps.

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