[littleitaly716]

hmmm so do you think she is keeping her options open because she knows I am not the ONE? … OR is she keeping her options open because she is still getting to know me and needs more time to figure out if she wants anything to do with me long term??? Keep in mind she was engaged last yr, her fiance cheated on her…she was devastated. I find it hard to believe that experience is not affecting her mindset regarding a real relationship…it HAS to affect her and cause her to “keep her guard up” in some way to protect her from getting attached to anyone allowing herself to become vulnerable.

We only have been dating about 3 1/2 months…. that’s not very long at all… I think if we make it to the 6 month mark or beyond then it might be time to really sit down with her and say listen it’s time to be honest and tell me what’s going on???

Just last week she invited me to come up to her family cottage and spend 5 days w/ her, and while I’m there I’ll meet most of her family… most women WOULD NOT introduce a man to their family unless the think he has SOME potential for a real relationship…in my opinion. Despite the match.com profile still being active, I see the invite to meet her family as a big sign…am I wrong??????