[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re definitely taking the right approach. 😀 Staying friends or even friendly with an ex is a big mistake. It prevents you from moving on, and it makes you less attractive to her because you’re too available. Give yourself some space — maybe even until Thanksgiving — and see how you feel about her then. 🙂

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