The frequency of staying in touch with each other in the course of a long distance relationship has to do with compatibility. There has to be a margin of agreement on what is right for both of you. If she wants to be in touch fifteen times a day and he wants to be in touch fifteen times a year, there’s going to be enough incompatibility to hinder the relationship. But if she wants to be in touch ten times a day and he wants to be in touch two times a day, maybe four times is a compromise, or more likely, some days there will be a lot of contact, and some days none. The important thing is that there is a [i]margin[/i] of compatibility.
The important thing to note with long distance relationships is that there has to be some in person contact — enough to make the relationship viable. If all your contact is via the internet and phone, and none is in person, you’ve got a bigger problem at hand.
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