No, this won’t work. Sorry.
You’ve never had a date with her, and she’s not willing to date you until she’s divorced, and you have no idea when that will happen. My advice is that you date women who are not already married to someone else. 😳 Investing emotionally in someone who’s not available to date you isn’t a good idea.
The long distance issue that “allows you to clear up your own life” is a flashing yellow light. My advice is that you clear up your own life FIRST and then date someone who’s compatible.
Read Date Out of Your League, a book I wrote for men who want to win with women, in order to be successful at dating. Here’s the link for that book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].
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