[April Masini, your AskApril]

The first thing you should do is to buy and read Date Out of Your League, a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. It’s EXACTLY what you need to answer so many of the questions you posed in your post. Here’s the link where you can buy the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

The second thing you need to understand is that you’ve only been dating her for three to four months and you have children, she has school, you have jobs — you’re still getting to know her. Focus on this process instead of jumping the gun and declaring each other soul mates before you know if you’re even compatible! 😕

And watch out for the flashing yellow light: she’s only had one relationship that lasted a year and she’s 32 years old. This means she has never seen a relationship through past a year.

I hope this helps, and that you’ll read Date Out of Your League and then let me know how things are.

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