I’m afraid you’re not going to like what I have to say… Unfortunately relationships built on lies and dishonesty (like an adulterous affair) continue that way. A cheat is a cheat is a cheat and a liar is a lair. Rarely does a person who lied to and cheated on their wife or husband not repeat that behavior… If someone lies to others and cheats on others with you, why would you think they would not do the same to you? Please don’t tell me it’s because they told you they wouldn’t. Their actions and dishonest behavior have demonstrated their character and their ability to lie and deceive. Their actions have clearly demonstrated who they are and that behavior (more often than not) will be repeated regardless of who they are with.
People can lie, actions and deeds never do.
If you ignore and put off confronting the issues you mentioned, in spite of facts and evidence supporting your suspicions, you are simply delaying what you will eventually be forced to deal with. I suggest you look the devil in the eye and confront the truth — sooner rather than later. 👿
Good luck! April
