You’re in a slow separation that will eventually lead to divorce — but at the rate the two of you are going, it could take years and years. Neither one of you has the impetus to finish the divorce — they can be a lot of work and it takes tenacity or a lot of legal fees to pay for a lawyer’s tenacity, to complete a divorce. In the meantime, she’s definitely taking advantage of your financial generosity and it sounds like she’s got one foot in the dating pool. She doesn’t sound like she’s interested in being married, and unless YOU do something, this dynamic will continue like inertia. 😕
It’s time for you to move on. Divorce is hard and I probably don’t have to tell you that! But once you complete it, you’ll have clarity and that’s always a good thing. You’ll be able to move on and heal from the pain of a broken marriage, and then move on to find love in your life again.
I’m sorry for your divorce, but it’s time to end this year with completion, and start the new one with a fresh outlook on the rest of your life — and your love life.
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April Masini, your AskApril