[April Masini, your AskApril]

Look, the pity party has to end. You’ve only been divorced a month and separated a few months. It’s way too soon for you to start saying that you’re a “failure at relationships”! 😯 You’re just not used to dating, because if you were, you would have recognized this woman wasn’t right for you, and stopped investing time in her, and moved on. That’s why you should buy Date Out of Your League, at this link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] and read it today!

Rejection is part of dating. It’s a gift because it guides you away from someone who isn’t interested so you can invest your time in someone who is! If you think the first, second, third or even fourth woman you date is going to be Ms. Right, then you need to make some new friends who are out there in the dating world. There are so many single women that it’s important to be honest with yourself about what you want and then be honest with yourself about what’s in front of you. What you felt with this woman you wrote about was not passion. It was lust. With a little more experience you’ll learn to recognize the difference.

You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and read Date Out of Your League, and get back out there. Your next life chapter is going to be as successful as your attitude and the amount of smart work you put into it!