The reason [b]Answer’s[/b] post appears mean to you is because he or she is telling you what you don’t want to hear, and he or she is frustrated that you’re not processing my advice so [b]Answer[/b] is being blunt with you in an effort to get you to understand what’s going on. 😕 It’s not “messed up” that the object of your affection reacted the way she did. You’re not taking responsibility for your part in this dynamic. It’s time for you to focus on you and not anyone else. Read the advice. Buy the book.
If your ex doesn’t want to talk to you, then don’t bother her. Find a new girlfriend. The book, Date Out of Your League, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url], will help you. 😉
April Masini, your AskApril