[April Masini, your AskApril]

You sound so miserable and distrustful of him that I don’t think you should stay. 🙁 When you mention that he “has failed many times before” the picture of who you’re dating changes from someone who’s interested in pretty girls to someone who’s got something else going on. Only you know why he’s failed and why he’s decided to go into this business and whether or not his decision to work in this business is about his career and financial success or about the feeling he gets from being around these beautiful women.

I do know that marriages have ups and downs and children bring stress to marriages and if you’re this stressed about the relationship now, you’re only going to feel worse when normal problems crop up.

Not every woman is cut out to be with a man who travels for his living and not every woman is cut out to be with a man who works extraordinarily long hours for a living and not every woman is cut out to be with a man who works around models for a living. Don’t beat yourself up if his career path isn’t compatible with what you want for your own life. Believe me, if you start out feeling bitter from compromising now, you’re not going to end up feeling better about things in the long run.

I’m sorry — but it just doesn’t sound like this is a good match for you. 🙁

Let me know how things go. And please join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].