I just wanted to say thankyou April for your advice and guidance. You were brutally honest but it is what i needed.
I sat down with her and asked her to be truthful with me about whether or not our marriage was a priority for her and she told me it wasn’t anymore and if we were to stay together i would need to accept she would be spending a lot of time with her lover.
So i explained to her that a divorce was best for both parties, so i could try and move on with my life and she could be with him, and she agreed. She moved out on Sunday (and has gone on holiday with him immediately which shows her midset) and over the next few weeks the process of the paperwork will begin.
Thanks April.
