[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’ve never actually dated. 😯 You just hang out in Spanish class. This isn’t a romantic relationship. It’s a friendship, and frankly, if she can’t tell you what’s going on in her life, she’s not a close friend. 🙁 If she doesn’t want to tell you about her problems, there’s nothing you can do to force her to. Back away and leave her alone. She isn’t interested in a relationship right now.

Find someone who is.

I hope that helps.

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