[April Masini, your AskApril]

I understand that you dated for two years, but when did you break up? How long has it been since you were together? If his being in the military and having served his country has caused him to grow up and realize what he lost in you, he may be ready to make things right, now. He may feel that now he’s ready to settle down and get serious. If this is the case, and he’s all that you described him to be, it may be in your best interest to at least hear him out.

I know that the break up hurt you, but it doesn’t sound like his reasons for breaking up were wrong since he was going to serve in the military and wouldn’t be able to see you while he was doing this.

Stop worrying about how he got your phone number and focus on whether or not you’re too hurt to hear from him again. If you’re not seeing anyone and you’re still interested in him, and he’s ready to commit to you, this could be a good time to hear from him.

I hope that helps.

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