I think you missed the point of the column Jonathan. Perhaps you should read it again? Here’s the link:
I am in no way suggesting that men behave badly or mistreat women. Equally, I am not in support of “bad boys” nor am I encouraging “nice guys” to act like “bad boys”. My goal was, specifically, to point out human nature and to explain (to nice guys) why some women feel, think and behave the way they do… if something (or someone) is too easy to get, it is viewed as less valuable than something (or someone) that is harder to get… If someone is too eager and too available they are perceived as needy or desperate.
And, for the sake of argument, the article could be reversed… The same truths (like them or not) apply to women too.
