There is no reason I can see that you should be interfering in your friend’s relationship with his girlfriend. If your friend has a problem with his girlfriend, he should deal directly with her or he should write me himself. Your getting advice for him is inserting yourself into his relationship, and could be seen as a form of betrayal by his girlfriend.
Sorry, if that was harsh, but you really need to butt out.
If you have your own issues with weight and appearance I’m happy to help you, but when someone else starts asking questions “for a friend” the question is either a veiled cry for help for themselves or else, more likely, a need to control a relationship that they really shouldn’t be in in the first place.
Enjoy your friendship with your guy friend, but focus on yourself and your own life. If you do, I bet you’ll find you don’t have the need to be involved in other peoples’ relationships.
