It’s always a bad idea for a woman to chase a man for all the reasons I discuss on this website, but if what you’re doing is wishing his father well and hoping his dad gets better soon, I think that’s fine. However, I’d suggest you use a different method than text, which is so fleeting. A thoughtful e-mail or even better, a real life Hallmark type card that you send by the postal service is even better. It shows you took the time to choose an appropriate card and compose a thoughtful message to him that is specific to his dad’s struggle with cancer — rather than dashing off an attention getting text that is more about your convenience than his life.
I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.
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April Masini, your AskApril