I agree, of course, with April. If your boyfriend is divorced from his son’s mother then more than likely he is going to do what pleases his son out of guilt because of the broken home that resulted from their break up. Your boyfriend will always put his son first and you should accept that since it is what you have chosen for yourself and it is what it is. April’s right, it’s not going to change. If this isn’t something you want then if I were you I would cut my losses. And if I may, really consider the age difference. My father was 16 years older than my mother and they were always at different points in their lives and that always caused some kind of conflict. Do you really want to be changing his diapers in the future WAY before you’re ready to? Just sayin.
katdawg