You need to listen to your own words…. “frankly I think he should be motivated by his hearts desire to say I love you or move in together. I would hate to think he would do either of these things not because he was moved by his own want, but because I forced him into a corner.”
You are 100% correct.
Let me very clear about this: I do not think a woman should ever, ever, ever ask a man to get married or to move in with her.
More, if a woman feels like her guy is wasting her time and may never ask her to marry him, she should stop spending all of her time with him, immediately, begin to date other men
