The internet is a great place to meet people, but it’s not a good way to conduct an entire relationship. I’m not sure what you mean when you say that things have gotten sexual since you have never seen each other in person, and I’m not sure how old you both are. That said, it’s normal for him to want to have a real life relationship, and it sounds like he may be pursuing women outside of your internet relationship. You’re just hearing dwindling disinterest, but if you read between the lines and understand that a year of “dating” online doesn’t really satisfy anyone’s needs (socially, emotionally, physically and sexually), you’ll understand he’s probably looking elsewhere.
I hope this helps. Let me know how things go — I’d love to see you have a real life relationship with a man!
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