[April Masini, your AskApril]

The bottom line is that your fiance violated a restraining order. It doesn’t really matter in the eyes of the law, what she did to provoke him. The court granted an order restraining your fiance from contacting this woman in any way — and he didn’t play by the rules.

The best thing YOU can do is to encourage him to disengage with her altogether. Don’t respond to her communications. Don’t contact her. If he sees her in a room, to leave, regardless of the circumstances. The rules are pretty clear — all he has to do is abide by them.

I hope that helps! 😀

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