[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]Am I missing something? I am being very patient and I love him but I’m not sure if he is truly serious about ending things with his ex even though he says he is…[/quote]

😯 😯 😯

Yes. You are missing something. You’re missing the word “Welcome” stamped on your forehead because you are getting stepped on big time — and you’ve turned yourself into a human doormat.

For a year and a half, you’ve dated a man who is married and living with his wife. What more do you need to know? He’s using you. Get yourself together and get out of this relationship — yesterday, if possible!

The only mixed signals you’re getting are from your own brain — sorry if this is harsh, but you’re not seeing what is so clear. If a man is married, and he hasn’t gotten divorced in the entire year and a half you’ve been dating, and you say he’s had a three year separation 😮 during which time he’s living with his wife — and they don’t even have any children to co-parent — I’ve got some swamp land to sell you!! 😕

I hope you’ll take this post as a long overdue wake up call.

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