No, you should not accept your ex-girlfriend’s Facebook request because you haven’t moved on emotionally, and you’re vulnerable right now, only one year sober. You’re very clear that adding her will stir up emotions that you’re not ready to face yet, so focus on your health and those people who make you feel good and healthy. You don’t have to give her an explanation. Just ignore the request and delete it.
Put all your energy on your own life and your own ability to be in a relationship with someone you trust and can share intimacies with. Living healthy [i]yourself[/i] is the first step to being able to be in a healthy and rewarding relationship with someone else. Focus and execute — I know you can do it! 😉
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