[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like there is something intriguing about this girl, and that you have feelings for her, but you’re not sure they will be reciprocated or that they’re feelings you’ll continue to have as you get to know her further. In the past, you decided to do nothing rather than explore awkward conversations and possible rejection, but as you’re getting older, you’re realizing that rejection is part of life, and that without it, you completely lose the chance you may actually win this girl over! 😉

My advice is to be true to your feelings — you want to date her, but you’re afraid of the competition and the rejection. Let your interest in her overcome the fear. Ask her if she’d like to go to a movie or bowling or to some event that would be fun for both of you. Take it one day at a time, but don’t bury your feelings without going for what you want — a first date with her!

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